DEAR DEIDRE: A COUPLE me and my boyfriend were friends with would stir things up between me and him whenever we went out. There was always drink and drugs involved – and we’d end up fighting. I’m 21, the other girl is 22, and the boys are both 24. My boyfriend finally picked up on […]
DEAR DEIDRE: A COUPLE me and my boyfriend were friends with would stir things up between me and him whenever we went out.
There was always drink and drugs involved – and we’d end up fighting.
My boyfriend still chats to a girl who used to stir things up between usGetty - Contributor
I’m 21, the other girl is 22, and the boys are both 24.
My boyfriend finally picked up on their stirring and we started avoiding them. I heard the other couple had a baby then split up.
I haven’t seen them in nearly a year but she is still a friend of my boyfriend’s on Snapchat. She doesn’t speak to me but she does message him.
He says nothing is going on but why is he chatting to her behind my back?
I’ve talked calmly, I’ve shouted and screamed.
He denies any contact but I’ve seen her name flash up on his phone. I don’t want to lose him to her.
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DEIDRE SAYS: Playing detective and trying to monitor your partner’s social contacts rarely pays dividends.
Shift the focus to making sure that your time together is as good as can be, then he will have no interest in going behind your back.
My e-leaflet Your Relationship MOT will help. Tell him calmly you’d rather he had no contact with a girl who is so disruptive but of course it’s his choice.
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