DEAR DEIDRE: I AM sitting here at home with just our cat for company while my wife is away with her lover.
When she returns I know she will want to tell me all about it. She says our marriage is over but she wants to stay living in our house until she has saved enough to leave.
My wife still lives with me after leaving me for her ex and it’s torture[/caption]
I have never been able to express my feelings openly but I have always loved her.
She contacted an ex three months ago and started an affair with him. She is now sleeping in the spare room and just wants us to be friends. I am 29, she is 28.
I love her and hate her at the same time. How can I sit by and watch her build a new life with such disregard for my feelings?
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DEIDRE SAYS: You must not even try. Your wife is using you and you deserve much better.
Tell her that, if she wants to leave, she must go now. If her lover wants her to be with him, he can help her out.
It is cruel and unreasonable that she should expect you to hear about her week with her lover. If she starts, get up and leave the room.
Work on rebuilding your own social life. My e-leaflet Moving On will help you cope.
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