I’m married but secretly go to a local brother with the lads after a night out
DEAR DEIDRE: SECRETLY I visit prostitutes after work.
My wife is 37, I am 39 and we have been married for 15 years.
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After a night out with the lads from work, we all go to a local brothel.
While some of them go to the private rooms at the back for sex, I sit with a beer in the front room, chatting to some of the girls.
I enjoy the buzz but I do not have sex with them. The most sexual thing I have done is book a lap dance.
DEIDRE SAYS: Certainly it is good you are not having sex there. But you know your wife would be horrified if she realised how these work nights end.
You are diverting sexual energy away from your marriage. Share that need for a buzz with your wife.
If you value your marriage, say goodbye to your mates earlier, go home and work through my e-leaflet 50 Ways To Add Fun To Sex.
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