DEAR DEIDRE: THERE is a guy down the pub I fancy and we get on really well but I had a one-night stand two weeks ago with a guy who turned out to be his brother. He won’t let me forget it. I broke up with my long-term boyfriend six months ago because he cheated on […]
DEAR DEIDRE: THERE is a guy down the pub I fancy and we get on really well but I had a one-night stand two weeks ago with a guy who turned out to be his brother.
He won’t let me forget it.
I had sex with the guy I like’s brother and it is proving to be an obstacleGetty - Contributor
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I broke up with my long-term boyfriend six months ago because he cheated on me and I went a bit wild, having lots of one-night stands to boost my self-esteem.
I am 26. I was hoping to get together properly with this guy I like down the pub and would never have slept with his brother if I’d had any idea.
They don’t look at all alike.
Now, every time we speak he throws his brother’s name at me.
How can I convince him to give me a chance? He’s 28.
DEIDRE SAYS: It might feel unfair but you may not be able to turn this around.
Knowing that you had sex with his brother might always sit uncomfortably in his mind.
Your best bet is not to sound apologetic, though.
Back off a bit for now, so he has to make some of the running if you are to stay chatting.
Try to learn from this, though.
One-night stands usually do more damage than morale-boosting.
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