I started university an innocent virgin a year ago – but now I’ve romped and kissed many guys

DEAR DEIDRE: I STARTED university last year as a very innocent girl, a virgin who never drank or went out. Now I’ve kissed lots of guys, lost my virginity to one and fancy another. I’m 19 and uni was like a new world for me. I lost my virginity to one lad but he was just […]

DEAR DEIDRE: I STARTED university last year as a very innocent girl, a virgin who never drank or went out.

Now I’ve kissed lots of guys, lost my virginity to one and fancy another.

Alamy

I’m 19 and uni was like a new world for me. I lost my virginity to one lad but he was just using me, sadly. I picked myself up and at different times kissed many different guys. I realise this looks super-bad.

I started to really fancy one of them, though. We kissed several times and always had deep conversations when we walked home from nights out.

Now we’ve all had to go home because of Covid-19. I’ve tried texting him but he often doesn’t reply.

Do I pursue it? I don’t want to embarrass myself by telling him my feelings by text and then have him reject me and tell everyone.

DEIDRE SAYS: He isn’t showing signs of being very interested so let it go. Focus on making the best of what life is offering you.

You are back home and I guess your university has given you work to do. Do some studying which will stand you in good stead for your degree.
How about volunteering during the crisis?

Broaden your horizons and boost your CV – see covidmutualaid.org.

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