I have a ‘buried penis’ and fear how my online lover will react when she sees it
DEAR DEIDRE: I’M a man of 42 and have found love for the very first time in my life. My massive fear is that I won’t be able to have a full-on intimate relationship with my partner, as I have what’s called a “buried penis”. She’s 39 and we first met online nearly two years […]
DEAR DEIDRE: I’M a man of 42 and have found love for the very first time in my life.
My massive fear is that I won’t be able to have a full-on intimate relationship with my partner, as I have what’s called a “buried penis”.
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She’s 39 and we first met online nearly two years ago.
We have shared many wonderful weekends together – but not shared a bed.
I’ve been obese all my life but have lost a great deal of weight following bariatric surgery.
Even so, I have no confidence in myself physically and I am petrified that I won’t be able to satisfy her.
I believe there are physical interventions to deal with a buried penis but I am equally fearful of them.
I know she loves me. She is in the process of divorcing her abusive husband and plans to move 200 miles to be with me.
I’m worried that once we get close, she’ll be changing her mind.
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DEIDRE SAYS: Try not to worry. She has decided already to change her whole life to be with you.
I doubt she would do that if the relationship between you didn’t already tick all the important boxes for her.
You’re clearly a kind and loving man who is offering everything she wants.
My leaflet How To Thrill A Woman In Bed explains how to make her feel aroused and satisfied using what you have got.