I’ve barely had sex with my boyfriend since we moved in together

DEAR DEIDRE: I LOVE my boyfriend very much but we hardly have sex since we moved in together.

I’m 27 and he’s 29. I have raised the subject a few times and then he is all over me straight away, but it feels forced and rushed, and I can’t get into it.

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We have sex about once a month now, and he always says I’m incredible in bed, but before buying our house we would do it whenever we saw one another, which was about three times a week.

It’s not just sex. There is no kissing or cuddling either. He says he is just not an affectionate person but it’s getting to the point I feel unwanted. He always tells me he loves me so why doesn’t he want me?

If I try to give him any more than a peck he says, “That’s for the bedroom,” and says I’m like a man who only thinks with his penis when it’s no wonder I’m craving sex.

DEIDRE SAYS: Your boyfriend feels like a domesticated man now instead of a sexy lover – some of that thinking may go back to what the atmosphere was like in his home as he grew up.

Tell him you have got to shake this up or your relationships risks dying on its feet.

Fix two date nights a week and take your pick from the ideas in my e-leaflet 50 Ways To Add Fun To Sex.

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