I’m devastated after getting a Facebook message about my husband’s ‘other woman’

DEAR DEIDRE:  I GOT an anonymous message on Facebook, saying: “Ask your husband about his other woman.” I’m devastated. He has cheated before but vowed never to do so again. It was eight years ago that I found out he’d had a two-year affair. I moved out at once. He was broken and begged forgiveness. […]

DEAR DEIDRE:  I GOT an anonymous message on Facebook, saying: “Ask your husband about his other woman.”

I’m devastated. He has cheated before but vowed never to do so again.

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It was eight years ago that I found out he’d had a two-year affair.

I moved out at once.

He was broken and begged forgiveness. I gave in and we started again.

Since then, our marriage has been better than ever.

We are in our late forties but felt half our age . . . then that horrible message arrived.

My husband swears he is faithful. I want to believe him and had no suspicions, unlike last time.

I have no idea who sent the message. Should I try to forget all about it?

I can’t spend my future with him if he has cheated again.

DEIDRE SAYS: Trust your instinct.

If that message is the only evidence that he has been misbehaving, I would say put it out of your mind.

Your marriage is now all you want it to be and you are surely alert to the signs of a husband who is playing away.

Someone is out to cause trouble for you.

Unless what they say rings true, trust your judgment.

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