I’m addicted to watching porn but I blame my wife for not giving me enough sex

DEAR DEIDRE:  I AM happily married but addicted to porn and to sex chat online. I have swapped videos and messages with strangers and my wife has found out – but I think it’s her fault in a way. I have been doing this for a few years and tried hard to stop. My wife […]

DEAR DEIDRE:  I AM happily married but addicted to porn and to sex chat online.

I have swapped videos and messages with strangers and my wife has found out – but I think it’s her fault in a way.

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I have been doing this for a few years and tried hard to stop.

My wife is very upset. She threatened to leave with our two little boys.

I promised it was the first and only time but she must take some responsibility too.

We are in our twenties but have sex just two or three times a week.

That isn’t enough. In my country, the culture is strict.

Relationships outside the marriage are not OK here.

I dream of living in an open European society where I can do what I choose.

DEIDRE SAYS: You have the wrong idea.

Sex outside marriage and committed relationships is not OK generally in European society either.

Unless it’s by mutual agreement, the deal is that partners stay faithful.

Cheating is cheating even online.

You try to offload the blame but you know it is wrong, as you have tried giving up.

My e-leaflet Internet Pornography Worries can help you.

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