I’ve completely lost my sex drive and now feel like a selfish, rubbish wife
DEAR DEIDRE: I FEEL like a selfish, rubbish wife because I have completely lost my sex drive. My husband is very loving and still wants regular sex. He’s 50, I’m 40. We have a nice life and no money worries. We’ve been married for ten years. Sex was fine at first but I stopped wanting […]
DEAR DEIDRE: I FEEL like a selfish, rubbish wife because I have completely lost my sex drive.
My husband is very loving and still wants regular sex.
He’s 50, I’m 40. We have a nice life and no money worries.
We’ve been married for ten years.
Sex was fine at first but I stopped wanting it around five years ago.
He loves cuddles and kisses but I keep pushing him away.
I am thinking of ending my marriage to stop hurting him.
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DEIDRE SAYS: I am sure your husband will hurt a whole lot more if you end your marriage.
Think back to when things changed. Did something happen which may have affected your interest in sex?
Or could it be that your sex life wasn’t as thrilling and satisfying for you as it was for your husband?
Whatever the cause, you should be able to recover your sex drive.
My e-leaflet Reviving A Woman’s Sex Drive has self-help tactics.
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