After four kids my wife never wants sex and it is driving me mad
DEAR DEIDRE: IF I nag my wife, she makes an effort for a few days then we just go back to our sexless marriage. I am 30, she is 29 and we have been together for ten years. We have four gorgeous kids, aged six, four, two and nine months. I love them and my […]
DEAR DEIDRE: IF I nag my wife, she makes an effort for a few days then we just go back to our sexless marriage.
I am 30, she is 29 and we have been together for ten years.
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We have four gorgeous kids, aged six, four, two and nine months. I love them and my wife to bits.
We used to have a fabulous sex life but since the two-year-old was born, we only get passionate maybe two or three times a year.
She says she loves me and is happy. I have explained to her how I feel.
She understands and says we will get our sex life back on track but it just never happens. It is driving me mad.
DEIDRE SAYS: No doubt your wife must be exhausted by bedtime.
Four young children is a handful.
However, sex is important in most relationships.
Offer to take care of all the kids regularly to give her time to herself.
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Agree to focus on quality rather than quantity sex and make sure she is fully satisfied.
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