My girlfriend sells sexy pictures of herself online and it makes me jealous
DEAR DEIDRE: I HATE my girlfriend selling sexy photos of herself online but she says my paranoia is the problem, not her behaviour. I’m 25 and have just started seeing this incredibly beautiful woman I have known for a while. She was with a very successful local businessman who drives a flash car. I […]
DEAR DEIDRE: I HATE my girlfriend selling sexy photos of herself online but she says my paranoia is the problem, not her behaviour.
I’m 25 and have just started seeing this incredibly beautiful woman I have known for a while.
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She was with a very successful local businessman who drives a flash car.
I didn’t make a move until I heard she was single.
Her ex is supporting their two boys generously but she is obsessed with doing whatever it takes to give her kids the lifestyle they had when she was with their dad.
I do respect that but feel very jealous all the same.
I am really struggling to deal with the issues of the photos.
It is raising red flags for me.
I see a relationship as being a partnership between just two people.
She has been open and honest with me but says she might meet some of the guys who buy her photos, though not for sex. It scares me to death that this might happen.
She is very clever at flipping things back on to me.
Am I overreacting, as she says? Or is she up to no good?
DEIDRE SAYS: You have very different views and finding a compromise will not be easy.
I worry when people market their sexual self, as it tends to numb their emotional responses in relationships.
And just what would your girlfriend be meeting these men for?
If their first point of contact has been her sexy photos, I can guess what the guys will be hoping for.
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I can’t see you feeling happy as long as she is marketing herself this way.
So I reckon you will have to stand up for your beliefs while she will have to choose what matters most to her.
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