I avoid sex because my todger’s so tiny — should I get surgery?
DEAR DEIDRE: BECAUSE my manhood is so small, I avoid hitting on women as I know the outcome will be disastrous. I am a 21-year-old guy. I have had sex with quite a few women but only one-night stands or with escorts. I avoid women my friends or family will know, especially my brothers, because I […]
DEAR DEIDRE: BECAUSE my manhood is so small, I avoid hitting on women as I know the outcome will be disastrous.
I am a 21-year-old guy. I have had sex with quite a few women but only one-night stands or with escorts.
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I avoid women my friends or family will know, especially my brothers, because I don’t want them to know how tiny I am.
Girls I’ve had sex with have been disappointed.
On some occasions I couldn’t get erect because I was embarrassed at their reaction to my penis.
I have thought about taking pills or having surgery but I am reluctant in case it messes with my chances of having kids one day.
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DEIDRE SAYS: You should avoid pills and surgery, which do have downsides.
Casual sex tends to mean you get judged on superficial things like size. Quality sex doesn’t depend on it.
If you wait until you are both fond of one another, you will discover it is possible to enjoy fulfilling sex. My e-leaflet Manhood Too Small? explains.
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