My boyfriend and I are never passionate and routinely have sex once a week

DEAR DEIDRE: MY boyfriend of two years and I have always had an issue with sex. We never had the passionate stage where you can’t keep your hands off each other. We are both 26. Sex is once a week – no more, no less. He says that is enough for him yet he watches porn […]

DEAR DEIDRE: MY boyfriend of two years and I have always had an issue with sex.

We never had the passionate stage where you can’t keep your hands off each other.

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My boyfriend of two years and I have always had an issue with sex[/caption]

We are both 26. Sex is once a week – no more, no less.

He says that is enough for him yet he watches porn three times a day.

He says he does that through boredom because he’s working from home.

A few times recently he has struggled to climax and lost his erection.

I’ve asked him what I can do about my looks to be more appealing to him.

He always insists I’m lovely as I am but how can that be true?

If he did find me attractive, he wouldn’t need porn so much.

How can I compete with porn stars?

DEIDRE SAYS: This is not about your looks.

It is about communication and, ultimately, your boyfriend kicking his addiction.

Porn is designed to hook viewers into increasingly extreme scenarios that can dull the experience of real life sex.

I’m sending you my Internet Porn Worries support pack, which will help you both understand how his habit is affecting your relationship.

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