I fear work lover will ditch me for sex with younger girl who wants to bed him
DEAR DEIDRE: A GORGEOUS young love rival is threatening my secret workplace relationship.
I am a woman of 50, PA at a plumbing firm and have been seeing a colleague, who is 20 years younger than me, for three years.
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We agreed to keep things low-key because of our age gap – and that was fine at first. But time has passed and he still won’t tell anyone.
We are otherwise very happy and have a great sex life.
Recently, a woman of 28 joined the company. She openly declares that my boyfriend is “gorgeous’’ and even told everyone: “I would bed him.”
He shrugs it off and has shown no interest in her but it’s making me doubt his feelings for me.
Why won’t he tell anyone about us? Is he ashamed of me?
DEIDRE SAYS: Ask yourself if you really want people at work to know about you because you are ready to go public or whether you really want this other woman to know he is off-limits.
He has given you no reason to feel she is a threat to your relationship.
If you are still feeling insecure, talk to him about how you are feeling.
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Can you ask him to gently let her know he is not interested?
He needs to know how this is affecting you and take your feelings on board.
My support pack Looking After Your Relationship should help with this.
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