I caught my boyfriend cheating on me with escorts

DEAR DEIDRE: I’VE discovered my cheating boyfriend has been seeing escorts. I want to leave him but I’m broke.

When we met four years ago, he played me off against his ex.

But after this rocky start, things went well and he asked me to move into his house with my kids. I am 43 and he is 46.

A few months ago I caught him in a hotel room with another woman.

Although I agreed to work through it and try again, the trust was completely destroyed.

Now I have found strange numbers on his phone. I looked them up and they belonged to escorts.

He admitted calling the escorts as a laugh when he was bored or drunk but says nothing happened.

I don’t believe him and I’m devastated. I can’t eat or sleep.

I love him but feel I should leave before he destroys my mental and physical health. But I can’t afford a place for me and my children.

DEIDRE SAYS: Your partner has a habit of being unfaithful. He cheated on his ex with you, and then on you with several other women.

Unless he faces up to his behaviour, it is unlikely he will ever change. My pack, Can’t Be Faithful, explains more.

Leaving him will be hard but staying is making you unhappy and ill and the tension will affect your children.

Talk to shelter.org.uk (0808 800 4444) about what housing help is available for you.

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