Woman baffled when her husband who ‘never had social media’ joins Facebook – then discovers he’s trying to find his EX

STALKING your ex on social media is never a good idea and always ends up being problematic. For one woman, she was left devastated when she found her husband had finally signed up to Facebook so he could secretly find his ex-girlfriend. Asking for advice, the woman – anonymously known as “heartbroken” – explained her […]

STALKING your ex on social media is never a good idea and always ends up being problematic.

For one woman, she was left devastated when she found her husband had finally signed up to Facebook so he could secretly find his ex-girlfriend.

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One woman was left devastated when she found out her husband had been stalking his ex on social media[/caption]

Asking for advice, the woman – anonymously known as “heartbroken” – explained her situation in an advice column titled Dear Annie and questioned whether she should confront her husband.

The woman revealed she and her husband first met in high school and have been married for over 20 years.

While she has been on social media for some time now, her husband was never interested and only set up a Facebook account last year in 2020.

“I have never felt the need to check his phone, but something didn’t seem right, so I gave in,” she wrote.

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She discovered he had told friends he “missed” his ex and wanted to track her down online[/caption]

“I checked his phone without permission. I found out about a week after joining Facebook that he had sent a message to someone he used to work with before we married, and he asked this person if he knew how to get ahold of an ex-girlfriend he had dated.”

In the message, he had said he “really missed” his ex and had “never forgotten” her.

She revealed that the ex in question had been a woman her husband had dated in the past, while he had briefly split from her before they got married.

When she saw him become “friends” with the ex on Facebook, the woman admitted she got “mad” and revealed her husband responded by “blocking her” from his account.

Heartbroken, the woman questioned whether she should confront her husband, who she shares two teenage children with, again.

Agony aunt Annie Lane responded by suggesting the couple try marriage counselling and the wife approach her husband during one of their sessions.

Annie encouraged the woman to question her husband about why he is “unhappy” in their marriage and insisted that she shouldn’t tolerate being “bullied” by him if she wants their marriage to “get back on track”.

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