I’m an atheist and my husband wants to become a Muslim but I’m worried

DEAR DEIDRE: I AM an atheist and my husband was a non-practising Christian – until he said he intends to become a Muslim. I’m scared it will push us apart.

I’m 32 and he’s 37. When we met 15 years ago, we accepted that we had different views.

But recently he says he has come to the realisation of who he should be.

He told me he has always felt a pull to Islam and the Muslim faith.

While I respect his beliefs, my concern is this will create a gap between us.

I am happy with our life as it is. But now my husband is trying to force me to wear religious clothing and adhere to Muslim societal standards.

He also wants me to take our daughters, aged five and nine, to the mosque.

That’s not on.

DEIDRE SAYS: Do not let him pressure you into doing anything you are not comfortable with. It is possible to respect your husband’s choice while continuing to live your life as you want.

Tell your husband how you are feeling. Explain that you are worried it is going to put some distance between you. The way to navigate through this is with mutual respect.

My support pack Looking After Your Relationship has some tips on how to reset.