My husband isn’t allowed to have friends of the opposite sex and I need to know if he’s talking to a woman – it works

EVERY marriage has its own dynamics, its own rules, and its own expectations. While there is no single recipe for a successful union, there are certain common practices that most couples believe to be helpful. A woman named Bailey, who goes by @bmcpher on TikTok, shared a few tactics that work for her and her […]

EVERY marriage has its own dynamics, its own rules, and its own expectations.

While there is no single recipe for a successful union, there are certain common practices that most couples believe to be helpful.

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Bailey’s rules with her husband seem extreme to many couples[/caption]

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But some viewers agreed with Bailey on the topic and believed the expectations she presented were perfectly normal[/caption]

A woman named Bailey, who goes by @bmcpher on TikTok, shared a few tactics that work for her and her husband.

“Rules that my husband and I have for our marriage that make people ANGRY,” she began, as the song called Start A Riot played in the background.

Their first rule: “No friends of the opposite sex.”

Rule number two and three: “No work gfs/bfs; no being alone with the opposite sex.”

She playfully danced and smiled as she listed her final rule on the topic: “No texting the opposite sex without the other knowing.”

The guidelines seem unreasonable to the average viewer, and Bailey is clearly aware of her controversial opinions. Her TikTok bio says she is “unpopular.”

How could one control if they are in a room alone with someone of the opposite sex?

And what ever happened to a completely platonic boy-girl relationship?

Bailey was likely worried about unpleasant backlash, as she disabled comments on the video.

She posted a follow-up video, however, where she revealed some more rules of her marriage.

“No lusting after others (no following scandalous pages),” she said.

“Always put each other first (even over parents).”

While many people labeled the rules as being too strict, others came to Bailey’s defense:

“I’m confused, these are perfectly normal boundaries. What are y’all on?” said one.

“And that ladies and gentleman,” began another, “is respecting your partner! Does your hubby have a brother?”  

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Bailey insists that she is in a healthy, happy marriage and that these rules work for her family[/caption]