I fantasise about my wife’s friends when we make love
DEAR DEIDRE: SEX with my wife is great, but it’s not her I’m thinking about when we make love – I always fantasise about her two friends. They look nothing like her. She’s dark and petite, while they are both bigger and blonde. I’m 42, she’s 40 and we’ve been married for ten years. Last […]
DEAR DEIDRE: SEX with my wife is great, but it’s not her I’m thinking about when we make love – I always fantasise about her two friends.
They look nothing like her. She’s dark and petite, while they are both bigger and blonde.
I’m 42, she’s 40 and we’ve been married for ten years.
Last weekend, we got drunk and she asked what I thought about in bed.
I confessed and was worried she’d be upset but, to my surprise, it made her really horny.
She even said she was keen to take things further.
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She didn’t share her fantasies with me although I’m dying to hear them.
The idea of a threesome with her best mates really turns me on but I’m not sure it’s a good idea.
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DEIDRE SAYS: Sexual fantasies are perfectly normal and generally harmless.
Don’t feel guilty – fantasising about people who look different from your wife doesn’t mean you don’t find her attractive.
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Discussing sexual fantasies can be a healthy part of your sex life, but think twice before acting them out in reality, as this can cause jealousy.
Read my support packs on Sexual Fantasies and Threesomes for more guidance.