I’m a mom & my 3 controversial parenting rules make people really mad – including putting my husband first

WHEN it comes to parenting, different people have different priorities lined up.

Some parents handle things in ways that are considered controversial to others.

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A woman named Alexandra shares three of her controversial parenting opinions[/caption]

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Mom and TikToker Alexandra posted a video breaking down three controversial opinions she has as a parent.

Her husband appears in the video next to her and seemingly shares all her same views.

Their first parenting opinion is that they prioritize their relationship before their kids.

In other words, Alexandra wants to make sure that everything with her husband is on track before all else.

She puts her husband first, and in turn, he puts her first.

Their second parenting opinion is that they don’t make their kids kiss or hug anyone.

Alexandra’s husband says: “That includes us and their grandparents.”

Their third controversial parenting opinion is that they don’t tell their kids they’re pretty very often.

In fact, they try to avoid using looks-based language altogether.

Several people in Alexandria’s comment section think her parenting opinions are far too controversial.

Tons of people have left notes of disagreement for her to see.

One woman wrote: “I do not agree! Kids are always first no matter what.”

“Emotional neglect. Nice,” someone else added.

Another user commented: “I really hope that first one is a joke.”

“I agree with everything except for the last one,” another person responded.

Someone else chimed in saying: “Kids come first. You could divorce tomorrow. Your kids will always be there.”

”Ah yes. Wouldn’t want to remind your kids that they are beautiful to you. That would be so damaging,” another TikToker sarcastically added.