My husband’s snoring has ruined our sex life
DEAR DEIDRE: MY husband and I have gone from having sex like rabbits to just four times a year.
I’m so fed up with him. He’s 45 and I’m 37. I don’t want to be in a sexless marriage but I think he’s forgotten how to be intimate.
He snores so loudly I can’t sleep in the same bed. I’m a light sleeper, so I get next to no rest until it’s time to wake up, when I am so exhausted I don’t even hear the alarm.
We have no kids and a two-bedroom flat so I’ve shipped out to the spare room.
I long to have a sex life again but, when I mention it, he always has some excuse.
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DEIDRE SAYS: He disturbs your sleep but it’s likely he could have an interrupted sleep pattern too.
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He may have sleep apnoea, which can be problematic, so it‘s important he goes to see his GP or finds help through thesleepcharity.org.uk (03303 530 541), which can also suggest ways to treat his snoring.
Sex isn’t just for bed time, so my support pack called Saving Your Sex Life will help you talk to him about the lack of intimacy and getting your relationship back on track.
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