I refuse to invite my fiancé’s relative to our wedding because of his gross habit – I’m afraid he’ll do it at the party
WEDDINGS are meant to live on in your memory forever – for good reasons, that is.
One social media user is scared that she’ll have a wedding she’ll never forget in a negative way if she invites her fiancé’s cousin who she claims has a pretty crude habit.
In a Reddit post, a user shared her concerns about inviting her fiancé’s cousin to her wedding.
She wrote: “My fiancé and I are planning a small wedding of about 20 people, mostly just our immediate family and closest friends. He has a cousin, Jason (30m), who he was close to growing up.
“My fiancé used to live with Jason in a townhouse. During that time, he caught Jason peeing in the kitchen sink, the bathtub, out the window (through the screen), and in the backyard.
“He has even seen Jason on his security cameras peeing on the driveway. Jason has absolutely no shame and will pee in front of people and in public.”
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She recounted a time in which her fiancé’s family told her about an instance in which they were eating lunch on a dock. Jason apparently peed off the edge of the dock into the lake while the family was sitting about 10 feet away.
He’s said to have peed in front of his family on hikes and during road trips too.
The poster continued: “Even when toilets are readily available, Jason chooses to piss wherever and whenever he wants. I think he genuinely likes it when people say stuff like ‘ew Jason gross’ or ‘why can’t you do that inside.’
“It really feels like he loves the reaction he gets pissing in front of people. That’s really the only reason that I can think of for why this grown man chooses to pee like a dog.”
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The Reddit user explained that her wedding is mostly outdoors, and she is concerned that Jason would want to pee at their wedding due to the reaction he would get, and “because he thinks it’s funny to tick people off.”
The Redditor made it clear that she doesn’t want to worry about Jason peeing in front of her family on her wedding day or while she’s making her way down the aisle.
“My fiancé says he wants Jason there and he thinks if he asks him, he won’t pee outside (even though his family has asked him before and he did it anyways),” she wrote.
“I just don’t trust him. My fiancé told his mom that I didn’t want Jason at my wedding and she gave me a pretty hard time and asked me to reconsider.”
She concluded by asking if she was in the wrong for not wanting to invite her fiancé’s cousin to her wedding.
Many users agreed that she was completely justified in her feelings, some even calling Jason’s habit a “fetish.”
Others highlighted that Jason’s actions would be completely inappropriate in front of children.