Trolls shame me for being flat-chested & call me ‘ugly’ – people just love to hate on me because I’m confident and sexy
A WOMAN has revealed that nasty trolls call her “ugly” and “unattractive” because she’s flat-chested.
Clara Dao, body positive influencer who’s known for sharing self-love advice online boasts over 600,000 followers on Instagram.
She regularly opens up about body image and in a recent social media post, has revealed that she won’t listen to what keyboard warriors say about her so-called “flaws”.
The content creator revealed that she really began to shine when she started to be herself, and live her life, as opposed to worrying about what she thought was “wrong” with her.
She explained that people love to hate on her because she’s confident and claimed that men in particular enjoy trying to put her down.
Alongside some stunning swimsuit snaps, where the body confident woman posed in a black cozzie, whilst in Cuba, she wrote: “I got so many comments shaming my chest, my body, calling me ugly, unattractive, putting me down for literally just existing…but you know what’s funny?
“The comments just made me realise: PEOPLE JUST LOVE HATING ON CONFIDENT WOMEN.
“Like straight up I don’t know what it is about women loving themselves, living their best lives that somehow just like rub people (or more specifically a certain subset of men *ahem* ‘incels’) the wrong way and they LOVE putting us down, ‘humbling’ us with their cheap a** insults – with the hope that we stay insecure, hating ourselves, hating our bodies, so maybe they would have a chance with us if we don’t value ourselves enough.”
Clara then advised other women: “Like my girls WAKE UP!! You are so SEXY and BEAUTIFUL and HOT and AMAZING and TALENTED and GORGEOUS no matter what you look like!!!”
Clara told her followers to ignore the haters and continue to do their best to shine.
She concluded: “Like literally if there’s anyone that tries to make you feel bad about yourself, know that they just can’t stand seeing you SHINING so bright and just projecting their insecurities onto you!!”
Since she shared the post, more than 45,000 people have liked it – and many rushed to the comments to praise Clara and her confidence.
Not only did many agree with Clara’s claims, but others called her a “queen” and claimed that her haters are in fact her “biggest fans”.
One wrote: “Funny that these guys shaming women aren’t even good looking themselves.
“And if they are, it’s only their appearance, not their hearts. So nope still. Lols.”
They hate the confidence you have that shines through
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Another added: “People who body shame you are telling on themselves.
“They’re exposing how ridiculously undesirable they are.”
Meanwhile, a third commented: “This is so true.
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“People hate what they lack, they hate the confidence you have that shines through you which they do not have.
“You go queen. Haters are our biggest fans anyway.”
In the past, Clara admitted that she doesn’t see her flat chest as a “flaw”, and she now feels “happier than ever”, and doesn’t need validation from anybody.
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