I noticed my hubby was texting a ‘mate’ from work, then clocked he called her ‘babe’ – she turned out to be his 2nd wife
CHECK out this shocking moment a woman confesses that her husband has two wives.
Adriana Eliadr, from Luton, London, UK, took herself to the camera to confess that she was part of a trio marriage because her husband already had another wife.
Adriana grew suspicious over her husband’s secrecy, so she decided to snoop through his messages to undercover a shocking truth.
Messages between a ‘male’ from his work, started to look strange to the 22-year-old when she noticed some of the wording would be calling this person ‘babe’ and how much he ‘loves’ them – to find out then, it is a woman he is speaking to.
Upset and angry, Adriana, ran to her brother’s room to see if he knew about this scandal as he works with her husband, to which he allegedly responded, ‘I knew this was going to happen.’
Confessing to his sister that this woman is 18, and is new to the company, the estranged wife felt sick and refused to believe what she was hearing.
Confronting this secret mistress, the pair cried together, with the other woman confessing she didn’t know Adriana existed.
Adriana said: “He was in the living room when I came back.
“I looked at him, he looked at me, but he was smiling at first.
“So, I went upstairs, he then told my brother to get her [Adriana] to come downstairs so he could speak to me.”
Refusing to, Adriana’s husband went upstairs to see her, but allegedly was breathing heavily and didn’t apologise once to Adriana.
“He did not apologise to me. He did not,” she said.
“My husband was my first boyfriend, my best friend.
“All my special moments were with him… We’ve been married since I was 18.”
Trying to justify his actions, her husband asked if they could have an open relationship as he was interested in talking to different women whilst being with Adriana.
She said: “At first, I said yes, but then my friend said ‘Are you stupid? You want to share him with someone else?’ so I thought, no.”
“He started to get rude to me, so from July to November, we were having beef [arguments] all the time.
Four red flags your partner is cheating
Private Investigator Aaron Bond from BondRees revealed four warning signs your partner might be cheating
They start to take their phone everywhere with them
In close relationships, it’s normal to know each other’s passwords and use each other’s phones, if their phone habits change then they may be hiding something.
Aaron says “If your partner starts changing their passwords, starts taking their phone everywhere with them, even around the house or they become defensive when you ask to use their phone it could be a sign of them not being faithful.”
“You should also look at how they place their phone down when not in use. If they face the phone with the screen facing down, then they could be hiding something.”
They start telling you less about their day
When partners cheat they can start to avoid you, this could be down to them feeling guilty or because it makes it easier for them to lie to you.
“If you feel like your partner has suddenly begun to avoid you and they don’t want to do things with you any more or they stop telling you about their day then this is another red flag.”
“Partners often avoid their spouses or tell them less about their day because cheating can be tough, remembering all of your lies is impossible and it’s an easy way to get caught out,” says Aaron.
Their libido changes
Your partner’s libido can change for a range of reasons so it may not be a sure sign of cheating but it can be a red flag according to Aaron.
Aaron says “Cheaters often have less sex at home because they are cheating, but on occasions, they may also have more sex at home, this is because they feel guilty and use this increase in sex to hide their cheating. You may also find that your partner will start to introduce new things into your sex life that weren’t there before.”
They become negative towards you
Cheaters know that cheating is wrong and to them, it will feel good, this can cause tension and anxiety within themselves which they will need to justify.
“To get rid of the tension they feel inside they will try to convince themselves that you are the problem and they will become critical of you out of nowhere. Maybe you haven’t walked the dog that day, put the dishes away or read a book to your children before bedtime. A small problem like this can now feel like a big deal and if you experience this your partner could be cheating,” warns Aaron.
“I tried to save our relationship and be a good wife, but he was so mean to me.
“She got pregnant, and so he proposed to her in December, and two months later, they got married.
“He did not divorce me, so he has two wives now.”
She said she wanted to have a family with him and they are actively trying for a baby.
She asked for advice and said she was “struggling with my emotions.”