I cannot land my dream job role and the rejection is distressing

DEAR DEIDRE: SINCE I was a child, I have always wanted to be a flight attendant but I can’t get a job no matter how hard I try.

I am a 32-year-old man. I have applied so many times to all the airlines but I keep being rejected.

I really have had enough. I am becoming more and more stressed and my anxiety has gone through the roof.

Around three years ago I did work as cabin crew and it was the greatest time of my life but without any notice I failed my probation period.

I was never off sick or late. I didn’t do anything to upset anyone so I don’t understand the reason why.

At the moment I can’t apply for jobs because the constant rejection is so distressing. I really want to work.

It has always been my ambition to have a job in the travel industry. I feel I am missing out on life and it is so unfair.

DEIDRE SAYS: Constant rejection can be difficult, but keep applying for roles.

There will be someone who will give you a chance.

It is great that you are trying to pursue a career you’re passionate about.

Perhaps speak to employers face to face, or attend industry networking events so they can see what you are like.

It is worth asking for feedback when you miss out on jobs as this could strengthen your future applications.

My support pack, Help For Job Seekers, has useful tips.