Family’s outrage as paralysed grandad unable to speak after two brain bleeds asked to ‘blink’ by council to end tenancy
A COUNCIL has been forced to apologise after a paralysed grandad who couldn’t speak was asked to “blink” to stop paying rent for a property he didn’t even live in.
Peter Badger was unable to verbally end his £350-per-month tenancy after he was left paralysed from the neck down having suffered two brain bleeds.
The 64-year-old’s daughters tried to cancel the tenancy but were told by the council that it needed to come directly from their father – who couldn’t speak.
The sisters were left horrified after their dad, who had moved into a nursing home in July, was asked by a representative to blink to confirm the end of his tenancy.
Amber Badger, 32, branded the request as “so disrespectful” and said: “I get that’s the law and they needed to hear it from him, but he can’t speak.
“There was no sensitivity. Thankfully the care home said no straight away.”
Peter suffered his first aneurysm on October 9 last year after experiencing severe headaches and vomiting while attending a Peter Kay show at Wembley, London.
Although he showed initial signs of recovery, a second aneurysm on October 19 led to paralysis on his right side and breathing difficulties, requiring intubation.
By the end of October, shunt surgery resulted in full paralysis from the neck down.
His daughter applied for power of attorney in January to manage her father’s finances and end his tenancy at his council home in Millbrook, Southampton, Hampshire, but the process has been slow.
In June he was moved from a council flat to a nursing home in Romsey.
Amber contacted the council to explain her dad’s situation and his desire to end the tenancy.
She was told the council needed confirmation directly from Peter either by a signed form or verbally.
Lara, Peter’s eldest daughter, phoned the local authority and it was suggested to her that he should “blink” to end the tenancy.
They haven’t treated dad or us like humans.
Amber Badger
The 40-year-old said “no that’s not happening” and Amber said there must have been “other options” which are less disrespectful.
Eventually Peter agreed to the test as he “just wanted it over and done with”.
The “blink test” was never actually carried out as the council confirmed the end of tenancy following complaints from the family.
Amber said: “They haven’t treated dad or us like humans and it’s made an incredibly traumatic situation so much worse.”
Now the council have confirmed the tenancy for the flat will be terminated.
Amber said: “I am super happy this has finally ended. I am so pleased for dad that we will be able to move forward to build a life for dad in the care home.
“However it shouldn’t have had to come to this. What if dad didn’t have us?”
A spokesperson for Southampton City Council said: “Southampton City Council was first made aware Mr Badger was not living in [the flat] in July and had moved into a care home and wanted to end his tenancy.
“We apologise for the delay in reviewing this request and we will be reviewing our procedures.
“We will work with Mr Badger and his family to move the situation forward and apologise for any distress caused.”
What is a brain aneurysm?
A BRAIN aneurysm occurs when there is a bulge in a weakened blood vessel.
Usually, brain aneurysms only cause noticeable symptoms if they burst.
This burst leads to serious issues and is known as a subarachnoid haemorrhage (or brain haemorrhage).
If the aneurysm ruptures, bleeding can cause extensive brain damage – with three in five people dying within two weeks of suffering this.
What are the symptoms of a ruptured brain aneurysm?
According to the NHS, signs of a brain haemorrhage include:
- A sudden excruciating headache (similar to a sudden “bang” on the head)
- Stiff neck
- Sickness and vomiting
- Pain when looking at light
Unruptured brain aneurysms can occasionally cause symptoms too.
Signs of these can include:
- Loss of vision or double vision
- Pain above or around the eye
- Weakness or numbness on one side of the face
- Headaches
- Impaired balance
- Concentration issues or problems with short-term memory