I am so embarrassed about size of my small penis, my self-esteem has hit rock bottom

DEAR DEIDRE: I AM so embarrassed about the size of my small penis.

I’m a 32-year-old single man. I first noticed I was different from other boys after PE lessons at school.

Shower time became something I dreaded. It was obvious I didn’t measure up to the other pupils around me.

As I got older, using public urinals became challenging – I feel really uncomfortable and embarrassed.

I have had girlfriends but the relationships never last long.

No woman has ever commented on how small I am but I know that is what they are thinking. They probably feel sorry for me.

I feel like a rubbish excuse for a man, and it’s put me off trying to find another girl.

My confidence and self-esteem are at rock bottom.

Is there anything I can do or am I destined to be single for the rest of my life?

DEIDRE SAYS: Good sex isn’t about the size of your penis, it is about your confidence. And sexual satisfaction doesn’t come from the penis alone.

A man can be a good lover, no matter his size.

A good lover is someone caring and considerate, who wants to ensure their partner is fully satisfied.

Most women reach orgasm when the clitoris is stimulated in the right way.

Since this is outside the vagina, it is not directly stimulated by the penis.

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