I’d always fantasised about sex with my partner’s dad – we crossed the line when I was 20 & now I’m too addicted to stop
A WOMAN has revealed that she has been having sex with her boyfriend’s dad for almost four years.
The 23-year-old confessed that she has always fantasised about sleeping with a partner’s father, and now, she is totally addicted.
Keen to open up on her situation, the anonymous woman took to social media to share all, leaving many open-mouthed.
Posting on Reddit, on the r/adultery thread, the woman wrote under the username @TheLostGirl1996 and titled her post ‘I’ve been having sex with my boyfriend’s dad for a while’.
The young woman then admitted that she has been having a sexual relationship with her 25-year-old partner’s dad, who is 51-years-old.
She shared: “I’ve always had a fantasy of having sex with a boyfriend’s dad for some reason. Turns out he always thought I was cute.
“We have been secretly having sex my for about three years now since 2016 when I turned 20.
“He’s divorced eight years now. And we’ve always gotten along. It was like a best friend thing at first.”
The woman acknowledged that she initially tried to ‘resist’ her desires, but now can’t stop.
She continued: “I tried to resist the urge to continue but I guess it didn’t change anything.
“The sex with him feels like guilty pleasure. I think it’s how taboo it is.
“We even had sex on my 20th, 21st, 22nd and 23rd birthday.
“I’m only 23 and he’s 51 but I guess I’m still fulfilling a fantasy.
“I know I should stop but the sex is so addicting.”
What your sexual fantasies say about you
By Emma Kenny, a TV presenter and psychologist
Raucous Role Play: If your partner enjoys dressing up for fun, it shows creativity and a desire to keep things exciting. However, it might signal that he struggles with responsibility.
Multi-Partner Fantasies: Craving variety doesn’t always mean he wants to cheat. However, it could indicate deeper feelings of unfulfillment.
Power & Control: A little dominance is normal, but if it’s always about control, it may hide insecurities.
Adventure: Men seeking thrills may push boundaries, so be sure your comfort zone is respected.
Passion: If he’s romantic, he’s emotionally tuned in—though occasionally avoiding tough conversations.
Flexibility: Openness to new experiences is great, but constant novelty-seeking could mean avoiding emotional connection.
Red Flag: If control is his ultimate fantasy, it may signal a deeper struggle with power dynamics.
Eager for advice, she asked: “Has anyone else ever had a fantasy about sleeping with their partner’s parents???”
Reddit users react
Reddit users were left stunned by the woman’s confession and many flocked to the comments to share their thoughts on the situation.
One person said: “I get grossed out like the age gap. He was 30 and you were just born.”
Which generation is having the most sex?
A new report has lifted the lid on bedroom antics.
The research, conducted by experts at Kinsey Institute at Indiana University, revealed the average number of times people of different generations have sex per month.
- Gen Z – three times a month
- Millennials – five times a month
- Gen X – five times a month
- Boomers – three times a month
To this, the anonymous Reddit poster replied: “It doesn’t bug me at all”.
Another added: “Hopefully he won’t ever find out or else you might just destroy him completely.”
Meanwhile, a third asked: “Is it just the fact that he’s your boyfriend’s dad or do you have a thing for older men?”
In response, the Reddit poster simply confirmed: “All of it.”