I slept with my girlfriend’s MUM while she was at work – I kept thinking about her mid-sex but couldn’t stop
A MAN has revealed that he cheated on his girlfriend with her mother whilst she was at work.
And if that wasn’t bad enough, he also confessed that he kept thinking about his partner mid-sex, but couldn’t stop.
Keen to open up on the situation, the anonymous man took to social media to share all, leaving many gobsmacked.
Posting on Reddit, on the r/TrueOffMyChest thread, the man wrote under the username @Alone_Homework5028 and titled his post ‘I cheated on her with her mum and I’m never gonna tell her.’
He then admitted: “I f****d my girlfriend’s mum while she was at work.
“That’s it. I have nothing more to say except I’m a really terrible person.”
To add further salt in the wound, the man then explained that he plans on keeping his infidelity a secret.
He added: “I’m never gonna tell her and none of you have to believe this since I do see a lot of blatantly fake posts on here but assume it’s real.”
Eager for advice, he asked: “What do I do?
“I don’t wanna tell her but at the same time I really can’t live with this guilt. It f*****g sucks.”
The man later recognised: “I know I’m terrible and now that I think more into it, so is her mum.”
As well as this, the Reddit poster also confirmed that the sex with his girlfriend’s mother was “not that great”.
He acknowledged: “I kept having thoughts about my girlfriend mid-sex.
“I felt extremely bad but couldn’t stop myself.”
Reddit users react
Reddit users were left horrified by the man’s admission and many quickly flocked to the comments to share their advice.
Not only did people also slam the woman in question, but the majority urged the man to tell the truth and break up with his girlfriend.
Which generation is having the most sex?
A new report has lifted the lid on bedroom antics.
The research, conducted by experts at Kinsey Institute at Indiana University, revealed the average number of times people of different generations have sex per month.
- Gen Z – three times a month
- Millennials – five times a month
- Gen X – five times a month
- Boomers – three times a month
One person said: “You’re pretty bad but not as bad as her mum.”
Another added: “I’m not saying there’s no redemption for you as a person, but this relationship is 100 percent doomed. Be merciful, get out before you have kids and scar them with a broken family.”
A third commented: “Break up with her (with or without telling her) asap.”
You’re really dirty and wrong for this. I hope she doesn’t ever find out
Reddit user
Whilst someone else chimed in: “Tell her. End the relationship.”
At the same time, one horrified user slammed: “You’re really dirty and wrong for this. I hope she doesn’t ever find out. That would kill me. Why would you even think of doing this? No respect.”
Not only this, but the disgraced man later posted: “I’ve read everyone’s comments and I’ve taken all your opinions and viewpoints into consideration.
Four red flags your partner is cheating
Private Investigator Aaron Bond from BondRees revealed four warning signs your partner might be cheating.
They start to take their phone everywhere with them
In close relationships, it’s normal to know each other’s passwords and use each other’s phones, if their phone habits change then they may be hiding something.
Aaron says: “If your partner starts changing their passwords, starts taking their phone everywhere with them, even around the house or they become defensive when you ask to use their phone it could be a sign of them not being faithful.”
“You should also look at how they place their phone down when not in use. If they face the phone with the screen facing down, then they could be hiding something.”
They start telling you less about their day
When partners cheat they can start to avoid you, this could be down to them feeling guilty or because it makes it easier for them to lie to you.
“If you feel like your partner has suddenly begun to avoid you and they don’t want to do things with you any more or they stop telling you about their day then this is another red flag.”
“Partners often avoid their spouses or tell them less about their day because cheating can be tough, remembering all of your lies is impossible and it’s an easy way to get caught out,” says Aaron.
Their libido changes
Your partner’s libido can change for a range of reasons so it may not be a sure sign of cheating but it can be a red flag according to Aaron.
Aaron says: “Cheaters often have less sex at home because they are cheating, but on occasions, they may also have more sex at home, this is because they feel guilty and use this increase in sex to hide their cheating. You may also find that your partner will start to introduce new things into your sex life that weren’t there before.”
They become negative towards you
Cheaters know that cheating is wrong and to them, it will feel good, this can cause tension and anxiety within themselves which they will need to justify.
“To get rid of the tension they feel inside they will try to convince themselves that you are the problem and they will become critical of you out of nowhere. Maybe you haven’t walked the dog that day, put the dishes away or read a book to your children before bedtime. A small problem like this can now feel like a big deal and if you experience this your partner could be cheating,” warns Aaron.
“Thank you for wasting your time on a piece of trash like me.
“I have carefully taken how she would take things so I’ve decided not to tell her the whole story but to distort things a little so that she still realises she shouldn’t have such a close relationship with her mum.
“I doubt her mum would tell her the truth after realising her daughter is getting colder towards her.
“I appreciate the others telling me not to tell her anything at all because It would simply make her feel worse and make me feel better and I agree.
“I’m doing it for the most part because I don’t want to be eaten up with guilt.”