Dear Abby: Woman wants photographer boyfriend to focus on her

Woman wants photographer boyfriend to focus on her

When we get back and I download the pics from his camera, the majority of shots are of women’s chests, behinds and pretty faces.

(There are very few shots of me — ever.) When I ask if he wants me to delete the photos, he says no.

Am I wrong to feel unimportant and ignored?

Because you identify this man as your boyfriend, I assume you have an exclusive relationship.

There will always be women around who are younger and prettier.

Because you can’t control his taste in subjects, my advice is to quit downloading his pictures for him if they make you uncomfortable.

While that does not concern me whatsoever (after all, it’s one thing to be attracted to someone and another thing entirely to cheat), I worry that he thinks he couldn’t share this with me, and that it may lead to lies.

Loving Relationship in Michigan

Tell him you need his help and hope he’s the type who likes rescuing women.