Dear Abby: Girlfriend in closet taking her time coming out

Girlfriend in closet taking her time coming out

Dear Abby: I’m a lesbian currently dating a woman who is still in the closet.

[...] she has admitted that she’d have a problem with me talking to exes and not bringing up the fact I’m in a relationship.

If, after a year of dating, your girlfriend is still hiding your relationship, I think that’s exactly what you should do.

If this difference in where the two of you are is a deal-breaker, you should move on and find someone more compatible.

For the last seven years, I have been in a long-distance relationship.

[...] he said he would never tattoo someone’s name on himself unless he first asked permission.

Do you think maybe he doesn’t love me as much as he says he does?

Most men would be flattered that you got the tattoo, unless they were afraid it might somehow reveal that you are lovers.

Are you absolutely sure this man is divorced?