Woman moans ‘stunning sister’ is ‘reason she can’t get a man’ – but people say she’s in the wrong
A WOMAN has moaned her “stunning sister” is the reason she’s still single – but not everyone’s convinced.
The singleton, from Scotland, revealed her sibling is her best friend and regularly joins her on nights out.
But she fears this is stopping guys from noticing her, and affecting her dating chances.
Taking to social media, she said: “Advice needed please. I absolutely love my sister, but feel that she’s the reason I can’t get a man.
“My sister is stunning and naturally very outgoing. I’ve always been known as the ‘smart’ one.
“I’ve become single again in the last year and my sister has been amazing getting me back out into the big bad world.”
She added: “There’s always plenty of male attention when we are out, but it’s always aimed at her and I feel I’m like the ugly sister.
“She’s my best friend in the world and I don’t want to hurt her feelings, but she’s in an amazing relationship, so it’s just harmless flirting to her.
“I met one guy on a dating site. Soon as he clapped eyes on my sister I might as well have been invisible, no second date. How do I get past this?”
And while social media users have been kind and supportive in their advice, they’ve insisted the woman’s pretty sister is not to blame.
One said: “I used to feel this was when I was younger, all my friends are mega babes, one in particular who was ironically married was also a bit of a flirt and everyone would give her all the attention, it was so frustrating.
“But really, they [men] ain’t for you if that’s how fickle they are.
“What are you gonna do, just never introduce your partner to your sister and best friend?
“If someone is truly interested in you it doesn’t matter if the hottest woman in the world is there, you will be their attention.”
A second echoed: “It’s not you, it’s the guys you’re picking.
“If the guy is that easily swayed then he’s not worth your time.
“Find a real man who values you as a person and can treat you with respect.”
Meanwhile, a third wrote: “I assume you’re meeting these folk on nights out?
“If so, just focus on the fun night out with your sister and never mind focusing on trying to pick up a man, I find that always ends in misery anyway.
“Whilst I’m sure your sister is a megababe, it sounds like you may be feeling insecure in general and you’re maybe not in the best head space for dating.”